Finding Scat Partners Online – By Goddess Tempest

Finding Scat Partners Online – By Goddess Tempest

This question I suspect has been asked more times than “What time is it?” Obviously with good reason. In this article I will concentrate on the man’s point of view because they are the ones whom are at quite a disadvantage here.

I will write an article in the future on how to break your scat play fantasies to your vanilla partner as I stand by what I said, you have a better chance to play with her IF you approach it correctly. For this writing however I’ll stick to finding someone online if you don’t have a partner or if your partner simply can’t do it (if you handled the situation correctly chances are very good she gave you permission to find someone for these sessions as long as sex is not involved)

Out of all the social media sites you can try to find someone I’ll stick to Fetlife as an example since it is after all a site for kinksters and my best examples of the “DO’S and DONT’S” regarding this comes from my own experiences there over the years.

I will concentrate on what you must NOT do EVER in the following categories:

  1. Your profile
  2. Group postings
  3. Messaging her
  4. Her photo’s

 

Let’s get started on Part 1 (Your profile)

Your pictures. Guys let me explain something about women in general. Your photo’s are usually the LAST thing we look at on your profile. HOWEVER, that being said I have to point out that a blank photo is a HUGE MISTAKE! If you don’t even have a profile pic we simply move on because if you can’t put in the effort to upload even 1 picture why must we put in the effort to get to know you at all? For heaven sake just UPLOAD something already!

Whether you choose to show your face or wear a mask like me make sure it looks good.

Your profile picture should be something like this:

Finding Scat Partners Online

NEVER EVER like this!:

Okay……when you are finished laughing can we go on? OKAY seriously……STOP IT!! I WAS HAVING A BAD DAY OKAY!!

Hahahahaaa, amazing how bad you can look when you take a screenshot at the exact wrong moment with poor lightning. LOL But on a serious note though, you don’t have to be “Mr. Universe Supermodel” Just make sure your photo doesn’t look like you just rolled out of bed LOL

The very first thing women check on a profile is the “About Me” section. That annoying part where you have to tell people about yourself. Want us to wipe you from our memory and move on? Then put something like this there:

“I am a toilet looking for women to feed me”

Tell me something, if you are looking for a job what do you put in your Curriculum Vitae?

“I am a hard worker”?

Put only that in your Curriculum Vitae and see if you manage to be invited for an interview for a job, I DARE you!

Your profile IS your Curriculum Vitae for potential women looking to “employ” a male toilet slave. Put the same effort into your profile as you would put as a job seeker into your Curriculum Vitae and you’re off to a much better start. Remember that in many countries there are a lot more job seekers than positions available and the same goes for women looking for toilets. There are no specific statistics available for this according to my knowledge but I’d suspect for every women seeking a toilet slave there are at least 25 to 50 potential male toilets looking for such a woman. Competition is very tough meaning you want your profile (Curriculum Vitae) to stand out from the rest of the crowd to LITERALLY GRAB her attention and not give the other 24 to 49 a second thought.

Now it’s time for your writings. On Fetlife on your profile you can write as many notes, entries, poems and articles for your own profile as you like (almost like a mini blog) So how many have you written? None? Better get started then! The following is NOT an excuse:

“But I’m not a good writer”

You think I am? If you do thank you BUT that’s not the point. You think I always wrote articles for blogs such as these? NOPE! In high school I was the WORST writer humanly imaginable! PRACTISE PRACTISE PRACTISE!!! The more you write the better you get at it. You know how I improved my writing skills? In my vanilla life on my vanilla profile I started writing ghost stories for a group on Facebook. Mine SUCKED compared to the other writers but with time I got better at it. If you have interesting and thought provoking writings on your profile you’ll make her curious and AGAIN you are now standing out above the others with a flashing neon sign on top of your head, isn’t that GREAT!?

Now we move on to your postings on groups and your replies to other group postings. I go back as far as 3 years on those to see how passionate and active you really are regarding this fetish. If I see you replied the following on other people’s good and thought provoking group postings I will bid you farewell:

“Yeah”

“That’s hot!”

“I wanna tap that!”

“I wanna lick her ass and eat her shit”

Whenever I see “One-Liner” replies like that it only tells me you can’t hold up in an intellectual conversation with others. If THAT is your intellect how on earth are you going to be able to converse with me regarding what kind of sessions we are going to have, being my property, serving my every need etc.

BE ACTIVE! Join the groups that interest you and start posting or at least replying properly to other people’s posts. Do a proper job and you’d be surprised by the fact that potential women seeking toilets such as yourself might contact YOU FIRST.

An empty profile represents an empty mind and women prefer toilets whom can actually hold an intellectual conversation believe it not. For her that’s the ultimate in ownership, owning a smart intellectual male merely for the purpose to shit in his mouth.

Now it’s time for Part 2 (Group Postings)

You joined 300 groups but what do you contribute there in the form of passion and information? AGAIN women enjoy the detail, not pictures of your dick or trying to flex an “imaginary” bicep muscle.

It’s really not that hard, pick an interesting topic and post about it. Write something that will get people talking. NOT this:

“Does shit from a blond woman taste better than the shit from a brunette?”

Really? THAT’S what you want to write a post about? Want to grab a woman’s attention on a toilet play group? Rather go with something like this:

“After reading the limited research available online as well as interviews with Mistresses regarding the use of toilet slaves I came to the conclusion that women are more interested in intellectual toilets rather than good looking ones. I wonder, is this because owning an intellectual individual merely for the purpose of consuming her feces is more fulfilling?”

NOW, watch how many hits and comments THAT post of yours get. Certain posts will draw a certain “crowd” of people and THAT’S the crowd of people you want to be part of. It’s not a very big crowd, in fact it’s very limited and small INCREASING your chances so much more because the real women out there looking for toilets check these crowds out much more often.

Every now and then someone will comment on that post of yours meaning your post will remain under the top 3-6 posts and always on the first page of that group increasing your chances even more of being noticed. Make sure your profile is as interesting as your posts because she WILL check your profile out. The fact that you stated in your post that you read the little research that is available out there will tell her you really are passionate about this fetish as you actually went and searched for it. One single post and just look how you increased your chances by a DRAMATIC margin. Do this daily and you WILL be noticed.

Time for Part 3 (Messaging her)

This is where MANY guys screw up SO BAD! So you’re quite the popular poster and a woman commented on a couple of your posts or even just one of them. You feel that there MIGHT be a chance. After all, out of the thousands of daily posts she chose YOUR post to comment on. It is a positive sign because that means your post really stood out for her. This is in general where you guys screw it up the most. Those “ONE-LINER” messages. Recently I got a message from a guy containing the following:

“toilet me”

Take note, not even a capital “T”

Believe me, I REALLY wanted to reply with:

“u r toileted now”

However, I do not reward stupidity with any form of response. Besides I was too busy banging my head on the desk. No really, my brain goes into “re-boot” mode. I get a blank look in my eyes, drool leaks out of my mouth and I bang my head repeatedly on my desk while my brain’s operating system reboot and delete the corrupted files (stupid one-liner messages) LOL

Guys there is LITERALLY NOTHING more IRRITATING and ANNOYING than getting messages like that on a daily basis. BEFORE you send her any kind of message for heaven sake READ HER PROFILE!!! If her profile CLEARLY states how she HATE those one-liner messages or that she is NOT looking for a slave right now what use is it to go and send her messages with EXACTLY what she hates the most?

It’s like going to a job interview and after confirming the interviewer HATE smoking you AGREE with him and then proceed to light up a cigarette right there and then, blow the smoke into his face so he goes into a coughing fit, drop the ash on his expensive carpet, putting out your cigarette on his hand and then ask him:

“So? When do I start?”

Think you’ll get the job?

Then why do you send messages containing EXACTLY what she HATES the most? Know what the MOST women complain about not only in general but on Fetlife? Men don’t read profiles, they don’t pay attention to detail and they don’t LISTEN (Yeah, we talk to each other about this) If you start your first message to her quoting things that you read on her profile about her likes, dislikes, hobbies and interests and then elaborate on those I guarantee you that you have GRABBED her attention.

STOP BEGGING AND PLEADING! I like my slaves pleading for my mercy but NOT a total stranger behaving like a spoiled 5 year old in my inbox. Keep begging and pleading to be my slave in the hope that he will irritate me so much that I’ll eventually say “yes” Did I mention how we LOVE the invention of the “Block User” button?

Part 4 (Her photo’s)

So you are a hit and the messages between you two are going back and forth more frequent than signals between NASA and the International Space Station. You become friends and now you have access to her private photo’s. You just had to do it didn’t you?

“WOW! NICE PUSSY!!!”

If she is an exhibitionist she’ll love you for it. However if she is a bit shy and posted that photo mainly for pooping purposes your friendship with her just ended quicker with that remark than a race car at 200mph that crashed into a wall. AGAIN, see why I keep stressing how important it is to read her profile?

Make no mistake, as a woman myself I can testify there are true BITCHES out there with nasty tongues like arc welders. If you do happen to cross paths with such a woman, close that chapter and move on. Do NOT let her manipulate and exploit you because YOU deserve BETTER than that.

I can LITERALLY feel those greedy bitches trying to give me an aneurism with their minds right now for saying this. Be careful guys, there are unfortunately quite a number of women (usually between 18 and 24 years of age) whom are exploiting this amazing fetish. Don’t get me wrong, I’m NOT talking about Pro-Dominatrix’s. I’m talking about those women expecting gifts and contributions merely to talk to you because they are so “superior” to you that you should be their “pay piggy” for their time and conversation and nothing else. I think you know what I’m talking about, those whom state:

“I want to ruin you by spending your hard earned money on luxury gifts for myself that I don’t really need”

Don’t get me wrong, I know there is such a fetish and real players with it involving real money being transferred. I myself did a “blackmail” session with someone whom got his “kicks” out of me “blackmailing” him with photo’s he sent me etc. However I never really extorted the $500 out of his pocket. It’s all a fantasy for him. But you get such women in the toilet slave fetish as well unfortunately. Few weeks ago I read something on a group that made my jaw drop. A man in his 50’s was asking advice regarding swallowing shit and a 19 year old “Dominatrix” replied on his post:

“Send me a private message. I will tell you about the health risks as soon as you contributed a gift of $250 to me. Details are available on my profile”

I couldn’t believe what I was actually reading! I was shouting at my laptop as if she could hear me:

“GET A F*CKING JOB YOU LAZY BITCH!!!”

As for the REAL Pro-Dominatrix’s out there, I’m not going to go into huge detail since the owner of this site already have excellent writings for that. Even how to prepare for such a session. I’m going to concentrate more on how to avoid the fake ones. Let’s face it, this is the easiest way to follow to make your fantasy come true. By paying a Dominatrix to use you as a toilet. However, you are paying good money for this service so you want to make sure you get a good one with proper experience and not just a lazy, greedy bitch whom can’t deliver since most Pro-Dominatrix’s will require upfront payment or at least a deposit to avoid her time being wasted.

Remember I said your profile is your Curriculum Vitae? Same goes for her. I find some whom are 18 to 20 years old but claim to have 15 years of experience.

“Really sweetie? So you started your sessions in kinder garden then. How did it work? Did the boys pay you with wine gums and gummy bears to shit on the swing set for them?”

Do a little research on her first, sites such as these have lists of Dominatrix’s whom have been visited for sessions with excellent references so you can pay her fee or deposit upfront without worrying.

I’m not saying avoid young ones, there are ones barely 19 years of age but whom have extremely happy clients and an amazing track record. All I’m saying is do your homework to make sure you find the perfect one for YOU.

Remember that these Pro Dominatrix’s also get hundreds of annoying messages so make sure she understand you are serious about a session and not just trying to get a conversation out of her for “wanking material” Like all of us they are also human beings with feelings and a life outside kink too. Set up your session and enjoy yourself. If she is anything like me and also like having her asshole licked clean after she took a shit in your mouth make sure you do it with true devotion like my slave did here in “Pee And Poo Fun 2”:

Finding Scat Partners online

As far as advise goes. Remember a Pro-Dominatrix doing live sessions are not there to give constant advice. I do but I’m a video producer and don’t do live sessions for a living. I do feel bad sometimes because a man in his mid 60’s asked me advice 3 weeks ago. He is still waiting for my reply. I feel like shit about it because I truly respect him. He is over 60 years old and manage to find a female partner to use him as a toilet without any help from anyone. His questions are regarding the woman whom is going to feed him, she’s on certain medications etc and he needs to know the risks involved for him if he swallow her shit. I feel bad that I didn’t have the time to assist him yet and he is truly real. I do this free because I’m passionate about this fetish. Unfortunately there are guys out there constantly asking me about such advice, pretending they have someone whom will feed them. All they are looking for is conversation about this to “get themselves off” in front of their computer. Luckily it’s easy to spot these fakers because I have been through this THOUSANDS of times over the years.

Unfortunately such idiots do take up a lot of my time meaning the honest ones have to wait longer for the advice. This is why so many women refuse to give advice or they want compensation for it. As for me? I am planning to write an eBook about how to convince your vanilla partner to have scat sessions with you and use you as her toilet. It will be in very articulated and fine detail including a step by step guide as well is some personal info about me and my vanilla life. Yes, a book like that I will sell because months of writing goes into it but my advice will always be free. Why? Because my advice is a learning process for me too. Over the years I learned what advice works on what type of couples depending on the dynamic of their relationship / marriage. Unfortunately you’ll have to be a little patient for me to reply you sometimes because I get LOADS of advice seekers.

Time is unfortunately a factor, video productions do take up a LOT of it and I’m also doing custom requests now. Please take note that I’ll be on leave for two weeks from my vanilla job this April meaning you can expect LOADS of new clips in my store from around the 13th of April. If you have a custom request feel free to visit my store and send me a private message. Remember I can only produce a certain amount of custom clips so you’ll have to be quick to get your order in lol.

You can message me here for your custom orders:

https://www.scatshop.com/models/GoddessTempest/messages/compose/?r=GoddessTempest

Or if you just want to say hello you can message me on Fetlife.

Author / Writer: Goddess Tempest

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3 thoughts on “Finding Scat Partners Online – By Goddess Tempest

  1. Goddess Tempest,
    I am a 26 year old male and have been trying to get into the fetish community for several years. I have created an account on Fetlife.com. I have even attended a few events in my local community. I found your articles to be very enlightening. I understand that your time is very valuable however I would be interested to ask you about several inquiries. In the past I have reached out to a handful of Doms (most of them are professional and some of whom are relatively renowned in the community). In the past I have even scheduled sessions with local (fem) doms. I know exactly what type of fetish I am into, however I find it rare to come upon real girls who are passionate and authentic. I would imagine it depends on one’s location when it comes to large communities of like minded individuals. I am happy to have stumbled upon this blog. I would appreciate your time whenever it is convenient for you.
    Many thanks,
    Slave Dale

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